Different Thinking

After starting my search, I realized early on a trend. A sugar baby has to be the ideal prized gift to a potential SD. I was unaware of how hard this search can be. After only a month of looking, I sometimes want to throw in my hat.

I would consider myself average looking, decent body, intellectual but very Southern. I know how some people tend to stereotype southern people as country but to be honest, I must admit I AM. I am well traveled but as soon as I open my mouth you can hear my accent a mile away.

I am starting to fear some potential SD's might find this as a flaw. My southern accent is fairly strong. I am educated but sometimes my words sound different. I was wondering if other SB's find it hard adjusting to become the ideal SB. You know…. living up to the perfect standards.  Honestly, no one can really find this but I guess its ok for both of us to have an illusion.

Also another thing, I am extremely attracted to white men even before any exposure to sugar dating but I think some of the men I find attractive are not attracted to black women. I understand everyone has their own preference but is interracial sugar dating limited?

I was starting to wonder if online sugar dating was the route for me because I hate rejection.  Well, I actually run from it but I just finished reading SD Guru blog *btw freaking awesome tips* and after his words of wisdom, I feel renewed with new knowledge. I am going to be patient. This is not your typical dating scene and so with that I have to change my way of thinking.

It has to be a mutual attraction. I wanted to force things but that would only end in someone walking away with the wrong intentions and future turmoil.

So lesson learned is PATIENCE.............