Action Maybe?

My sugar search is still up and running.  I need some sugar. I have been patient but I wasn’t getting results I expected. I accepted the fact that this is not the real world of dating but how long is a girl supposed to wait. I am trying to find a way to enter the world of glitz and glam. So I guess I had try some new things.

Even though I love to dress sexy, I always won men over with my personality and drive for life. I never resulted into dressing provocative to capture a man’s attention. I love to look sexy but that can be in some sweats or glittery dress. My sexy is a mindset not necessarily always physically.

How do I go about finding my entry? What are men attracted to? *Thinking Thinking Thinking* Physical appearance!!!  They are led by their little heads so much that you would think they would get tired of it. Still after generations and generations, the slightest sight of skin sends them in frenzy.

I posted a new picture and now I am getting tons of hits. Some I can tell right away are fake daddies who only want pay for play. Moving right on past them without a second glimpse………I have read enough blogs from other babes in their beginning days  to know that’s the wrong road to go down.

Every man that I cared about was an asshole and jerk. They were always bad for me. They say you attract people similar to yourself. I really hope that isn’t true. If so I am bad person. Maybe I should revamp myself and not my profile. LOL Back to sugar, well let’s just hope for the best. My sugar wish is a  daddie who prides himself on being the ultimate gentleman.

Oh yeah, I met one guy from the site but he soon became a friend versus a daddie. He is loaded but only wants to have unprotected sex. I don’t know what world he lives in but clearly not EARTH. I can’t see myself doing that. He is fun to talk with at times. He’s 54 and lives in the same city as me. He is a rare find but he wants someone to go by his rules. He has the sugar but I don’t want any taste of it.

Now I have to weed out these prospects.  Who knows I may have a daddie in the next months to come. Would it be crazy to say by December?  Hopefully soon, I will be filled with sugar love.

Until next time, bye SWEETS.

Different Thinking

After starting my search, I realized early on a trend. A sugar baby has to be the ideal prized gift to a potential SD. I was unaware of how hard this search can be. After only a month of looking, I sometimes want to throw in my hat.

I would consider myself average looking, decent body, intellectual but very Southern. I know how some people tend to stereotype southern people as country but to be honest, I must admit I AM. I am well traveled but as soon as I open my mouth you can hear my accent a mile away.

I am starting to fear some potential SD's might find this as a flaw. My southern accent is fairly strong. I am educated but sometimes my words sound different. I was wondering if other SB's find it hard adjusting to become the ideal SB. You know…. living up to the perfect standards.  Honestly, no one can really find this but I guess its ok for both of us to have an illusion.

Also another thing, I am extremely attracted to white men even before any exposure to sugar dating but I think some of the men I find attractive are not attracted to black women. I understand everyone has their own preference but is interracial sugar dating limited?

I was starting to wonder if online sugar dating was the route for me because I hate rejection.  Well, I actually run from it but I just finished reading SD Guru blog *btw freaking awesome tips* and after his words of wisdom, I feel renewed with new knowledge. I am going to be patient. This is not your typical dating scene and so with that I have to change my way of thinking.

It has to be a mutual attraction. I wanted to force things but that would only end in someone walking away with the wrong intentions and future turmoil.

So lesson learned is PATIENCE.............

Why I want to start this journey

So I am your typical 24 year African American  lady. I am full of life and ready to attack the world full speed. One problem.....I made some poor choices that left me broken hearted and sick of dating average men.

Basically to sum it up...........I want more out of life and I am going to get it, even if I have to do some things that I don't want to.

I was sitting home with my roomie one day when Tyra came on. It was the episode on sugar babies. I was so intrigued that I immediately starting doing my research. I have been in love with a jerk for six years and I am tired of his games. He doesn't deserve me or the all love and attention that I give him.

To hell with love right now....I have an uncontrollable shopping problem and I love to travel. I have been doing this for years now, all at my own expense. NOT ANYMORE......I have a plan. I want a SD to come along and be my hero. LOL Well, at least my financial supporter until I can figure out what I want out of life when it comes to men.

So I signed up Sugardaddie, Established Men, Sugar Daddy for Me  and Seeking Arrangement. Off top, I started getting hits on SD but the others not as much. So I paid for subscription on SD and started my search.............